My MBA Journey at 69: Because Apparently, Climbing Everest Base Camp Wasn't Enough

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Sue Pimento

If you watched CBS 60-Minutes host, Cecilia Vega set out on a challenging 10-day trek to Everest Base Camp (EBC) in the Himalayas, for last week's episode, you couldn't help but marvel at the gruelling physical demands and the profound experience of being at the foot of Mount Everest.  Her journey, which involved intense training, navigating dangerous suspension bridges, and dealing with extreme altitude, also highlighted the massive industry around Everest and the vital, underappreciated role of the Sherpa community.  Her journey is an inspiring look at how we can push our own boundaries.  Bravo Cecilia!



Vega described hiking Everest Base Camp as "the hardest thing I've ever done physically," battling low oxygen (like breathing through a straw) and fatigue, despite months of training.  She experienced sub-freezing temperatures, crossed dizzying suspension bridges, and even witnessed close calls with avalanches, with trusty Sherpas conducting nightly tent checks to ensure her safety.



Hiking to Everest Base Camp is hard.  I know.  Because I did it.  At 60


Let me explain.

I have a tradition of celebrating milestone birthdays with a bang.


When I turned 60, I gave myself six physical challenges — one for each decade lived. The grand finale? Climbing to Everest Base Camp. It was epic, exhausting, and left me with both altitude sickness and lifetime bragging rights.


But as I approached 69, I craved something different. Not hiking boots this time — just highlighters. Not mountain peaks — mental peaks. I wanted an intellectual challenge that would prove my brain still had some miles left on it.


No oxygen tanks required this time. Just caffeine, reliable Wi-Fi, and an iron will.




How I Got Here (And Why I'm Questioning My Sanity)


I've always wanted an MBA — partly for the knowledge, but let's be honest, mostly for the prestige. There's something irresistible about joining that club of spreadsheet-loving scholars. For years, I've imagined myself casually tossing around terms like "synergy" and "stakeholder engagement" while sipping something expensive in a sleek business lounge.


What I didn't imagine was attempting this after a 46-year hiatus from university.


Spoiler alert: It's harder than I thought. Like, significantly harder.



Enter the MBA: Twenty-four courses. Two years or so, and approximately one hundred "What was I thinking?" moments.


I enrolled at the Sprott School of Business at Carleton University, which offers a generous seniors' discount. I briefly debated whether to ask for the student discount or the seniors' discount — then thought, why not request both? I've earned these wrinkles and this tuition bill.


Bonus perks: I qualify for the student medical and dental plans. My classmates use them for wisdom tooth extractions. I'm eyeing the denture clause.


Term One: The Tech Tsunami


Let's talk about the software situation.  Brightspace. Turnitin. eProctor. Excel (the betrayer). Word. APA 7th Edition. And about a dozen other platforms that might as well have been written in Klingon.

I expected a gentle introduction — maybe some academic foreplay before diving into heavy coursework. Instead, I was shoved into the deep end with weights tied to my ankles.


Each assignment came with a forest's worth of readings, PowerPoint slides, and discussion board posts. I was up at 5 a.m., trying to squeeze in extra hours in the day. (Spoiler: you can't.)


Despite decades spent managing teams, I was barely scraping 60% on quizzes — the open-book ones. How is that even possible?


Accounting became my personal Everest. People kept telling me, "Excel is your friend." That's a lie. Excel is that friend who borrows your car, crashes it, returns it on empty, and then asks if you've bothered reading the manual.


Casualties of War: Family, Friends, and Dottie


My family was neglected. My friends assumed I'd entered witness protection. Even my little dog Dottie stopped talking to me.


She'd give me this look — a devastating combination of pity and disappointment — every time I said, "Sorry, no walk today. Mommy has to study debits and credits."


You haven't experienced true shame until you've been judged by a 10-pound dog wearing a sweater.


The Breaking Point (And the Breakthrough)


I'll admit it — I had serious moments where quitting felt like the only rational option.

The workload was relentless. The jargon was endless. The pressure was overwhelming.

I contacted teaching assistants, professors, and even the university librarian, desperately searching for a lifeline.


They were all kind and patient. But ultimately, I had to figure it out myself.

And somewhere between the caffeine highs and APA citation lows, something clicked.

Even Cs get Degrees!


By midterm, I began to suspect something radical: perhaps the large amount of work was the real test. Not the material itself, but the sheer volume. Maybe this was the school's way of differentiating dedicated students from curious ones, the serious from the casual observers.


Was it possible that the secret to MBA success was learning what not to do?

After all, the passing grade is a B- (70%). At this point in my life, I'd be happy with a 71% and a full night's sleep. Hence the title, Even Cs get Degrees!


Working Smarter, Not Harder


Somewhere between week three and mild hysteria, I made a radical decision: stop trying to do everything.


I focused on lectures and study notes instead of drowning in supplementary readings. I prioritized assignments strategically. I stopped pretending perfection was achievable — or necessary.


The results were immediate:

• My grades improved

• My panic attacks decreased

• Dottie started making eye contact again


I also began scheduling regular Zoom calls with professors and TAs — not just for assistance, but to foster genuine relationships (my lifelong superpower). Once I stopped pretending, I had everything under control; everything truly improved.


School life has improved.

Home life has also improved.

I was finally able to brush my hair again.


Slowing Down to Soak It In

Next term, I'm taking just one course.

Because honestly, what's the rush?


I'm not chasing a promotion or striving for a corner office. I'm doing this for myself — for the simple joy of learning and the satisfaction of knowing I still can.  I want to enjoy the journey, not rush through it gasping. I want to look forward to lectures rather than fear them. I want my sleep score (and my sanity) restored.  The goal isn't speed. It's savouring.


What I've Learned So Far


Here's what these first two courses have taught me:


✓ I can still learn — even when my brain occasionally reboots mid-sentence 

✓ I can focus — especially with enough coffee

✓ I'm still gloriously, endlessly curious

✓ I need sleep (The 5 a.m. club can keep their membership)

✓ I need fun (Revolutionary concept, I know)

✓ I love to learn (Turns out, I always have)

✓ I make mistakes — and they're not terminal

✓ I need help — and I must ask for it

✓ APA 7th Edition is real — and I finally understand what it means (Sort of. Mostly. Sometimes.)

✓ Even Cs or, in my case, a B- get a Degree — consistent, sustainable B- work will win most every race


Looking Ahead: The Big 7-0


By the time I graduate, I'll be at least 70 years old.

And honestly? I can't think of a better birthday gift for myself.


When most people talk about slowing down, I'm actually ramping up. While others are downsizing, I'm uploading assignments at 11:58 p.m. When my friends ask why I do this, I smile and say:

"Because I still want to know what I'm capable of."


To Be Continued...


This is just the beginning of my MBA adventure. I've completed two courses out of twenty-four. Twenty-two more to go — one term at a time, one course at a time, one small victory at a time.

I'll update this blog periodically with new stories, fresh insights, and probably more tales of Dottie's disappointment.


As We Start the New Year


Here's a toast to all of us who refuse to act our age.


To everyone starting something new — whether it's an MBA, a marathon, or a pottery class.  To everyone who believes it's never too late to learn, to laugh, or to start again.  Because learning doesn't stop when you retire.
Sometimes, it's only just beginning.


Stay tuned for Term Two updates, where I'll tackle another course, hopefully retain my sanity, and continue proving that 69 is just a number (and so is 70, 71, 72...).


All the best to you in 2026 and beyond!  


Sue

Don’t Retire… ReWire!


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